I had a conversation with a cab driver this week, which got me thinking about true happiness and how many of us are not happy in our careers.
The cab driver mentioned that often he will pick up passengers, to take them to their chosen destination, during the week and the passenger would be so quiet and very serious and hardly make any conversation with them. But when picking up the same passengers on a weekend, "its like picking up a completely different person!" he told me. The passenger would be chatting away and laughing and so relaxed.
So I wonder, is it the working week that does this to so many of us. Even when you travel on the train Mon-Fri, everyone seems so serious, but on the weekend the air feels light and relaxed.
Are we really that conformed to routine that our whole vibrations and personality changes from week to weekend? Why it is that everyone seems to unwind when Friday hits, but is slow and sluggish come Monday morning?
If it is due to not being happy in your job...change it right now! Life is not meant to be this way. Is the 9 to 5 hours and the Monday - Friday scenario really worth changing your 'happy-go-lucky' personality for?
Too many of us settle for a life of doing a role to pay the bills and wishing time to go by fast, so we can have fun at the weekend and be free. This is not living...this is wishing time away.
Find fun things to do during the week, don't be less sociable with everyone because you have to get to your job...you never know what opportunities lie in conversations.
Find your true happiness and hold onto what makes you smile..24/7, 365 days a year...not just at weekends and holidays.
I'll leave you with a final thought...if your last day on earth was during the week Mon-Fri...would you want to go out miserable or smiling???? I know what I would choose....
Until Next time
Stay true to you
Coach Rita Hurry
www.coachrita.co.uk
www.loaradionetwork.com/#!coach-rita-hurry/ckbz
Friday 10 April 2015
Friday 27 March 2015
I feel Good!
Yes! I will admit that the first thought in my head was the classic James Brown song...c'mon lets all sing it...Boy it really does make me smile breaking out into a song! Entertaining myself with singing out of tune (luckily no one is at home) and singing the lyrics of the great classic.
But hey! I'm in a good mood and loving life right now...why? Life is meant to be loved. It is a blessing and it's so easy to take it for granted and find many things to complain about...so my aim in life and through the work that I do, is to eliminate the complaints and live life feeling good everyday.
It is a big mission...some days it can be easier than others, but is that just our perception of it. Is our perception of the day, what changes it from a great day to a bad day???
If you really want to feel good, can you make yourself feel good? Or does it depend on the circumstances around you and the people and how they affect you?
Do you think the external dimensions should determine whether you feel good or not?
If you are in a relationship and your partner is not attentive to your needs, emotionally or physically, have they ruined your day completely? If so, how? Who has the final say so of how it makes you feel?
I feel good as I have made some huge choices lately that feel so right for me and make me feel alive, so much that those I have come in contact with have been amazing and confirmed that the decision I made (which they are not aware of), was right for me. It was almost confirmation. I believe that came to be from feeling good first and working inside out and taking that leap of faith from within first.
So I feel good regardless of the external confirmation, as feeling good is such an incredible feeling, that I choose it over any other feeling any day.
So I'm leaving those questions I mentioned earlier open. I'm not here to answer them for you, that is not my role...my role is just to feel good.
But think about those questions and think about you and what is important to you. Is feeling good important to you? Then I have only one request....Go on feel it!
Big Hugs
Coach Rita
www.coachrita.co.uk
www.loaradionetwork.com/#!coach-rita-hurry/ckbz
Coach Rita is a Law of Attraction Coach, Energy Healer and LOA Radio Talk Show Host on LOA Radio Network. To listen to her previous shows - visit: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCG9avDtVEeiLwrsDg0m41SA
But hey! I'm in a good mood and loving life right now...why? Life is meant to be loved. It is a blessing and it's so easy to take it for granted and find many things to complain about...so my aim in life and through the work that I do, is to eliminate the complaints and live life feeling good everyday.
It is a big mission...some days it can be easier than others, but is that just our perception of it. Is our perception of the day, what changes it from a great day to a bad day???
If you really want to feel good, can you make yourself feel good? Or does it depend on the circumstances around you and the people and how they affect you?
Do you think the external dimensions should determine whether you feel good or not?
If you are in a relationship and your partner is not attentive to your needs, emotionally or physically, have they ruined your day completely? If so, how? Who has the final say so of how it makes you feel?
I feel good as I have made some huge choices lately that feel so right for me and make me feel alive, so much that those I have come in contact with have been amazing and confirmed that the decision I made (which they are not aware of), was right for me. It was almost confirmation. I believe that came to be from feeling good first and working inside out and taking that leap of faith from within first.
So I feel good regardless of the external confirmation, as feeling good is such an incredible feeling, that I choose it over any other feeling any day.
So I'm leaving those questions I mentioned earlier open. I'm not here to answer them for you, that is not my role...my role is just to feel good.
But think about those questions and think about you and what is important to you. Is feeling good important to you? Then I have only one request....Go on feel it!
Big Hugs
Coach Rita
www.coachrita.co.uk
www.loaradionetwork.com/#!coach-rita-hurry/ckbz
Coach Rita is a Law of Attraction Coach, Energy Healer and LOA Radio Talk Show Host on LOA Radio Network. To listen to her previous shows - visit: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCG9avDtVEeiLwrsDg0m41SA
Wednesday 10 December 2014
Our Emotional Guidance System
As a Law of Attraction Coach, the common theme I see with clients is the impatience of manifestation. "Why is it not coming to me?", "I did everything The Secret told me to, so why is it taking so long?".
The reason? The element of doubt that you are sending out. Even if you read the questions, you can sense the impatience in the question and you can imagine the person saying it, getting frustrated, can't you?
How is this believing that what you have asked for, you shall receive?
The Law of Attraction is far bigger than only "Thoughts become things". Our feelings and emotions play a huge part in the manifestation process too. It's all too easy to think something, send it out into the universe and then focus on it missing...erm that's not going to get you anywhere. Why? You are now focussing on the lack of having it, therefore the emotional vibrations that you are sending out into the universe are contradicting, what you put out originally.
One vital point about the universe, if you focus on something for too long, be it wanted or unwanted, it is always responded with a yes from the universe and before you know it, it's in front of your eyes!
We all have the ability to tap into our emotional guidance system. It is within us all. If you practice the Law of Attraction (LOA), and you haven't seen results, it's because you are not paying attention to your emotional guidance system.
If you are feeling frustrated, angry, upset or focussing on the lack of and anything else negative, you are emotionally down. Therefore, you are sending out negative vibrations out into the energy field in the universe and therefore will attract more of the same. If, on the other hand, you start to focus on uplifting things and ensure that emotionally you start each day on a good note and stay focussed on the good things and anticipate only good things for you and those around you, you will begin to attract what you want, that will make you even happier.
Why does this work? LOA is all about like attracts like. Nothing good will ever come, if you are always miserable and negative.
You have to remember your emotions play a huge role in LOA and the manifestation process. After all, the main reason you want certain things in life, is to feel good, right? So why not start feeling good now and begin the manifestation ball rolling...
If you feel you would benefit from One to One coaching, to work on and understand your Emotional Guidance System, please visit my website below, and contact me to book your initial session.
Until next time
Coach Rita
www.coachrita.co.uk
The reason? The element of doubt that you are sending out. Even if you read the questions, you can sense the impatience in the question and you can imagine the person saying it, getting frustrated, can't you?
How is this believing that what you have asked for, you shall receive?
The Law of Attraction is far bigger than only "Thoughts become things". Our feelings and emotions play a huge part in the manifestation process too. It's all too easy to think something, send it out into the universe and then focus on it missing...erm that's not going to get you anywhere. Why? You are now focussing on the lack of having it, therefore the emotional vibrations that you are sending out into the universe are contradicting, what you put out originally.
One vital point about the universe, if you focus on something for too long, be it wanted or unwanted, it is always responded with a yes from the universe and before you know it, it's in front of your eyes!
We all have the ability to tap into our emotional guidance system. It is within us all. If you practice the Law of Attraction (LOA), and you haven't seen results, it's because you are not paying attention to your emotional guidance system.
If you are feeling frustrated, angry, upset or focussing on the lack of and anything else negative, you are emotionally down. Therefore, you are sending out negative vibrations out into the energy field in the universe and therefore will attract more of the same. If, on the other hand, you start to focus on uplifting things and ensure that emotionally you start each day on a good note and stay focussed on the good things and anticipate only good things for you and those around you, you will begin to attract what you want, that will make you even happier.
Why does this work? LOA is all about like attracts like. Nothing good will ever come, if you are always miserable and negative.
You have to remember your emotions play a huge role in LOA and the manifestation process. After all, the main reason you want certain things in life, is to feel good, right? So why not start feeling good now and begin the manifestation ball rolling...
If you feel you would benefit from One to One coaching, to work on and understand your Emotional Guidance System, please visit my website below, and contact me to book your initial session.
Until next time
Coach Rita
www.coachrita.co.uk
Monday 6 October 2014
Good Vibrations
I have had some valuable time reflecting on getting more of what I want from life and manifesting good. I have been listening to a lot of talks and enjoyed every moment of it.
As a Law of Attraction Coach and Chakra Therapist, I understand the importance of understanding that we are all energy beings and the creators of our reality. What you see in your current reality, is as a result of what you have been sending out vibrationaly.
Now, this is something that can be very hard to understand, especially if currently your life is full of negative drama. So what do you do with this?
You focus on you and your feelings, your mood and you look to create a more happier feeling and mood. Yes, I know it can be hard. Trust me, when you get in a mood, sometimes we often want to stay in that mood and enjoy the moment of " Whoa me, Whoa me!" but this does more harm than good. What you are doing, is in fact re-creating the story you want to escape from, but you are not allowing yourself to do it.
We have to watch what energy we are sending out into the universe and if we want things to change, we have to look within first. This is the most difficult part, but trust me, it is easier to change within than battling to change another. That can be very frustrating.
If the current reality is negative, you have to stop talking about the negative points and start changing the story. You have to let it go and be and think different. You have to start telling a new story. A story you want to be YOUR story.
Life plays out according to that which we want for it. We do have the power to make things different, the only question lies, in whether you believe it or not???
Until next time
Coach Rita
www.coachrita.co.uk
As a Law of Attraction Coach and Chakra Therapist, I understand the importance of understanding that we are all energy beings and the creators of our reality. What you see in your current reality, is as a result of what you have been sending out vibrationaly.
Now, this is something that can be very hard to understand, especially if currently your life is full of negative drama. So what do you do with this?
You focus on you and your feelings, your mood and you look to create a more happier feeling and mood. Yes, I know it can be hard. Trust me, when you get in a mood, sometimes we often want to stay in that mood and enjoy the moment of " Whoa me, Whoa me!" but this does more harm than good. What you are doing, is in fact re-creating the story you want to escape from, but you are not allowing yourself to do it.
We have to watch what energy we are sending out into the universe and if we want things to change, we have to look within first. This is the most difficult part, but trust me, it is easier to change within than battling to change another. That can be very frustrating.
If the current reality is negative, you have to stop talking about the negative points and start changing the story. You have to let it go and be and think different. You have to start telling a new story. A story you want to be YOUR story.
Life plays out according to that which we want for it. We do have the power to make things different, the only question lies, in whether you believe it or not???
Until next time
Coach Rita
www.coachrita.co.uk
Tuesday 23 September 2014
Being the Creator of your life
As a Law of Attraction Coach and Chakra Therapist, I often see the one thing that stops many of us moving forward and achieving success in life, is deep rooted limits we place on ourselves that have been there for years. These beliefs stem from years of experiencing negative thought patterns since childhood and listening to limited instructions that have been passed down to us over time.
Often these blocks cause us to stop what we want to do and settle for "I Can't" or "What if" language. Unfortunately, many of us do not realise we have these subconscious blocks and think it is just our luck and travel through life, settling than actually living.
Life is meant to be enjoyed. Life is never a bore. But if you find that you struggle, than many times, life is not fun for you and often makes you angry than happy.
As a Coach I often say to my clients to look within and lets clear the negative blockages that stop you from moving forward and achieving success in this life. Together we work on clearing these blockages with special meditation or Chakra Healing Techniques. Once clearing begins, a whole new positive soul emerges, open to allow the universe to bring great things into their life and to finally no longer be afraid of going after what they want.
I love the work that I do with my clients. I love helping them through the barriers that have held them captive for so long and seeing that glint of happiness in their eyes when they finally get the 'all clear' and feel they can go for it!
Why? Because I was once there myself. I have experienced the pain of wanting more for myself and to break through the struggles, but knowing how or why nothing was working. Then I discovered the Law of Attraction and the subconscious and conscious roles in my life and knew that this was the key to setting me free. My experience has been incredible and I have never looked back since.
Boy, this sounds like an info ad for LOA and healing, but that is not my intention. I just have a huge passion for the reality it brings and I feel now is the time I want to share this passion with everyone and remind people, that you are all the creators of your life. Our thoughts do control our reality, so if our thoughts are limited by negative beliefs, than our results often result in a life we are not happy with. Why live in unhappiness and struggle, when you can live in joy and fulfilment.
If you are based in the UK and you would like to know more about the Law of Attraction and how to implement it in your life, I invite you to attend an information workshop I will be running on Saturday 8th November 2014. This workshop is a beginners guide to LOA, but you have to book your tickets quick as limited seats are available. Please visit www.coachrita.co.uk/events for more info.
If you are not based in the UK, I offer LOA Coaching to all via Skype, so please feel free to check out my website for more details: www.coachrita.co.uk
Life is too short to waste time dwelling and doing those things we don't want to. As the creator of your life, don't you think you should just do it and go for life?
Lots of Love
Coach Rita
www.coachrita.co.uk
Often these blocks cause us to stop what we want to do and settle for "I Can't" or "What if" language. Unfortunately, many of us do not realise we have these subconscious blocks and think it is just our luck and travel through life, settling than actually living.
Life is meant to be enjoyed. Life is never a bore. But if you find that you struggle, than many times, life is not fun for you and often makes you angry than happy.
As a Coach I often say to my clients to look within and lets clear the negative blockages that stop you from moving forward and achieving success in this life. Together we work on clearing these blockages with special meditation or Chakra Healing Techniques. Once clearing begins, a whole new positive soul emerges, open to allow the universe to bring great things into their life and to finally no longer be afraid of going after what they want.
I love the work that I do with my clients. I love helping them through the barriers that have held them captive for so long and seeing that glint of happiness in their eyes when they finally get the 'all clear' and feel they can go for it!
Why? Because I was once there myself. I have experienced the pain of wanting more for myself and to break through the struggles, but knowing how or why nothing was working. Then I discovered the Law of Attraction and the subconscious and conscious roles in my life and knew that this was the key to setting me free. My experience has been incredible and I have never looked back since.
Boy, this sounds like an info ad for LOA and healing, but that is not my intention. I just have a huge passion for the reality it brings and I feel now is the time I want to share this passion with everyone and remind people, that you are all the creators of your life. Our thoughts do control our reality, so if our thoughts are limited by negative beliefs, than our results often result in a life we are not happy with. Why live in unhappiness and struggle, when you can live in joy and fulfilment.
If you are based in the UK and you would like to know more about the Law of Attraction and how to implement it in your life, I invite you to attend an information workshop I will be running on Saturday 8th November 2014. This workshop is a beginners guide to LOA, but you have to book your tickets quick as limited seats are available. Please visit www.coachrita.co.uk/events for more info.
If you are not based in the UK, I offer LOA Coaching to all via Skype, so please feel free to check out my website for more details: www.coachrita.co.uk
Life is too short to waste time dwelling and doing those things we don't want to. As the creator of your life, don't you think you should just do it and go for life?
Lots of Love
Coach Rita
www.coachrita.co.uk
Tuesday 19 August 2014
Just Be
So upon reflection this week, I would say my message from the universe and for everyone is to allow yourself to just be. We all too often get ourselves stressed and focussed on all the details and keep on analysing everything we do and what people's reactions are to us. Does this really matter in the long scheme of things?
When you breathe your last breath, do you think you will be thinking about all the details or do you think you will just be?
We are all pure energy, pure spiritual beings living in the body that we have been given to take us through each day. Do you think our spiritual energy being is worried about what this person thinks of us, or what that person is saying to the other about us? Most probably not. Our energy within is but pure light, looking to experience great joy and happiness. To experience life and love.
Our physical reality sometimes consumes us so much, that we forget that there is so much more than what is seen. We are creators and we can create so much more in our lives, if we just let go of the details of life and focus on the joy.
Ask yourself this question...what feels better, sweating the small stuff and worrying all the time or letting go of it all and just enjoying life and those around you?
Now go with what feels lighter, as that is what your inner spirit wants too.
So as always I keep this short and sweet, and ask you one thing...Just Be! Be you the wonderful source of energy that you are and flow through life with the light of your true inner spirit.
SO until next time
Stay positive and just be...
Coach Rita
www.coachrita.co.uk
When you breathe your last breath, do you think you will be thinking about all the details or do you think you will just be?
We are all pure energy, pure spiritual beings living in the body that we have been given to take us through each day. Do you think our spiritual energy being is worried about what this person thinks of us, or what that person is saying to the other about us? Most probably not. Our energy within is but pure light, looking to experience great joy and happiness. To experience life and love.
Our physical reality sometimes consumes us so much, that we forget that there is so much more than what is seen. We are creators and we can create so much more in our lives, if we just let go of the details of life and focus on the joy.
Ask yourself this question...what feels better, sweating the small stuff and worrying all the time or letting go of it all and just enjoying life and those around you?
Now go with what feels lighter, as that is what your inner spirit wants too.
So as always I keep this short and sweet, and ask you one thing...Just Be! Be you the wonderful source of energy that you are and flow through life with the light of your true inner spirit.
SO until next time
Stay positive and just be...
Coach Rita
www.coachrita.co.uk
Monday 11 August 2014
The beauty of true love
Today I met this inspirational woman, that had this beautiful presence about her and when she spoke of life and the love she had for another, it truly was inspiring.
This woman, wasn't a business woman or had great credentials to her name. This was a woman who had such warmth and passion for other human beings, that no education or title could give her. It was a true love from within.
This woman was a mother of 3 children, married to her partner for 14 years. She has never worked and cannot write English. She lives a simple life. Looks after the house, takes her children to and from school, cooks the food, does the housework and supports her husband emotionally. A very simple life that she loves. Why? She loves to love her family. She loves to support her husband after a hard day at work. She massages his head and his back after a hard day on the building site, she supports her children through school and loves to love them....this woman loves to love.
She spoke about the pain she feels when she sees another hurting and how she wants to make those around her feel love and smile. She spoke about her passion to touch people's lives in someway, through touch that can heal ailments. She spoke about the essence and importance of saying thank you for everything including her family everyday and showing her family that she loves them no matter what.
In her eyes there was true love, no expectation that she should be rewarded for what she does, no expectation that her husband should be a certain way to get the massages. She just loves to love and care.
She told me one thing that we miss in society today, is the ability to share and talk, just sit down and talk to each other, without looking at each other thinking, "look at the faults on her face" or "he's put on a bit of weight", but just enjoy each others company and talk. She's right....so I did that today.
I spoke to this woman for a good hour today and it was the most enlightening part of my day the universe blessed me with. I felt love and spirit rolled into one. I saw the true essence of true love.
Many of us today, base our love on what we get back, but true true love is based on what we give. The ability to love yourself so much that you give love because you over flow with it and not expecting it to be topped up by another before you'll share.
I was blessed to have this hour with this woman and I am thankful that the universe blesses us with those whom we can learn even more from and to remind us of the path that we strive to stay on.
Honestly, right now I feel the love...love for my family, friends, my partner and if he were here right now, he'd get the best massage ever! :-)
But seriously, let's be an inspiration to each other. Let's not wait for someone else to fill your cup of love, fill your cup up with so much love for yourself that you have so much that you want to share. Fill it so full that the love that overflows just naturally pours out on everyone you meet.
For living is not about taking, its about true love, the essence that only your spirit, deep within can pour out into the world and fill you up at the same time.
I hope this post inspires you and touches you that you too can feel the love.
Until next time
Love you all :-)
Coach Rita
www.coachrita.co.uk
This woman, wasn't a business woman or had great credentials to her name. This was a woman who had such warmth and passion for other human beings, that no education or title could give her. It was a true love from within.
This woman was a mother of 3 children, married to her partner for 14 years. She has never worked and cannot write English. She lives a simple life. Looks after the house, takes her children to and from school, cooks the food, does the housework and supports her husband emotionally. A very simple life that she loves. Why? She loves to love her family. She loves to support her husband after a hard day at work. She massages his head and his back after a hard day on the building site, she supports her children through school and loves to love them....this woman loves to love.
She spoke about the pain she feels when she sees another hurting and how she wants to make those around her feel love and smile. She spoke about her passion to touch people's lives in someway, through touch that can heal ailments. She spoke about the essence and importance of saying thank you for everything including her family everyday and showing her family that she loves them no matter what.
In her eyes there was true love, no expectation that she should be rewarded for what she does, no expectation that her husband should be a certain way to get the massages. She just loves to love and care.
She told me one thing that we miss in society today, is the ability to share and talk, just sit down and talk to each other, without looking at each other thinking, "look at the faults on her face" or "he's put on a bit of weight", but just enjoy each others company and talk. She's right....so I did that today.
I spoke to this woman for a good hour today and it was the most enlightening part of my day the universe blessed me with. I felt love and spirit rolled into one. I saw the true essence of true love.
Many of us today, base our love on what we get back, but true true love is based on what we give. The ability to love yourself so much that you give love because you over flow with it and not expecting it to be topped up by another before you'll share.
I was blessed to have this hour with this woman and I am thankful that the universe blesses us with those whom we can learn even more from and to remind us of the path that we strive to stay on.
Honestly, right now I feel the love...love for my family, friends, my partner and if he were here right now, he'd get the best massage ever! :-)
But seriously, let's be an inspiration to each other. Let's not wait for someone else to fill your cup of love, fill your cup up with so much love for yourself that you have so much that you want to share. Fill it so full that the love that overflows just naturally pours out on everyone you meet.
For living is not about taking, its about true love, the essence that only your spirit, deep within can pour out into the world and fill you up at the same time.
I hope this post inspires you and touches you that you too can feel the love.
Until next time
Love you all :-)
Coach Rita
www.coachrita.co.uk
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