Friday 10 April 2015

Find true Happiness

I had a conversation with a cab driver this week, which got me thinking about true happiness and how many of us are not happy in our careers.

The cab driver mentioned that often he will pick up passengers, to take them to their chosen destination, during the week and the passenger would be so quiet and very serious and hardly make any conversation with them. But when picking up the same passengers on a weekend, "its like picking up a completely different person!" he told me. The passenger would be chatting away and laughing and so relaxed.

So I wonder, is it the working week that does this to so many of us. Even when you travel on the train Mon-Fri, everyone seems so serious, but on the weekend the air feels light and relaxed.

Are we really that conformed to routine that our whole vibrations and personality changes from week to weekend? Why it is that everyone seems to unwind when Friday hits, but is slow and sluggish come Monday morning?

If it is due to not being happy in your job...change it right now! Life is not meant to be this way. Is the 9 to 5 hours and the Monday - Friday scenario really worth changing your 'happy-go-lucky' personality for?

Too many of us settle for a life of doing a role to pay the bills and wishing time to go by fast, so we can have fun at the weekend and be free. This is not living...this is wishing time away.

Find fun things to do during the week, don't be less sociable with everyone because you have to get to your job...you never know what opportunities lie in conversations.

Find your true happiness and hold onto what makes you smile..24/7, 365 days a year...not just at weekends and holidays.

I'll leave you with a final thought...if your last day on earth was during the week Mon-Fri...would you want to go out miserable or smiling???? I know what I would choose....

Until Next time

Stay true to you

Coach Rita Hurry
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Friday 27 March 2015

I feel Good!

Yes! I will admit that the first thought in my head was the classic James Brown song...c'mon lets all sing it...Boy it really does make me smile breaking out into a song! Entertaining myself with singing out of tune (luckily no one is at home) and singing the lyrics of the great classic.

But hey! I'm in a good mood and loving life right now...why? Life is meant to be loved. It is a blessing and it's so easy to take it for granted and find many things to complain about...so my aim in life and through the work that I do, is to eliminate the complaints and live life feeling good everyday.

It is a big mission...some days it can be easier than others, but is that just our perception of it. Is our perception of the day, what changes it from a great day to a bad day???

If you really want to feel good, can you make yourself feel good? Or does it depend on the circumstances around you and the people and how they affect you?

Do you think the external dimensions should determine whether you feel good or not?

If you are in a relationship and your partner is not attentive to your needs, emotionally or physically, have they ruined your day completely? If so, how? Who has the final say so of how it makes you feel?

I feel good as I have made some huge choices lately that feel so right for me and make me feel alive, so much that those I have come in contact with have been amazing and confirmed that the decision I made (which they are not aware of), was right for me. It was almost confirmation. I believe that came to be from feeling good first and working inside out and taking that leap of faith from within first.

So I feel good regardless of the external confirmation, as feeling good is such an incredible feeling, that I choose it over any other feeling any day.

So I'm leaving those questions I mentioned earlier open. I'm not here to answer them for you, that is not my role...my role is just to feel good.

But think about those questions and think about you and what is important to you. Is feeling good important to you? Then I have only one request....Go on feel it!

Big Hugs

Coach Rita
www.coachrita.co.uk
www.loaradionetwork.com/#!coach-rita-hurry/ckbz

Coach Rita is a Law of Attraction Coach, Energy Healer and LOA Radio Talk Show Host on LOA Radio Network. To listen to her previous shows - visit: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCG9avDtVEeiLwrsDg0m41SA